Find a New Group
You will become like those you spend the most time with. There is a Proverb that says, "if you spend time with fools you will find destruction but time with wise will make you wise." You have probably heard the old saying that repeats this concept, "birds of feather flock together." Look at your friends that will be your life next year and in five years. If you don't like where you are at, then you need a new group. The next level may require friends.